
One of the big challenges with the loneliness epidemic is the cycle it creates. In fact, getting comfortable with solitude can paradoxically improve our ability to connect with others. This is voluntary isolation, and the evidence suggests it has a range of benefits.

Loneliness is also distinct from solitude. And importantly, it is the quality of these relationships, not the quantity, that matters the most. The perspective of these three types of loneliness varies by person, but ultimately both introverts and extroverts need strong relationships to feel a sense of belonging. Collective loneliness: Hunger for a network or community of people who share your sense of purpose and interests.Relational (or social) loneliness: Longing for quality friendships and social support.Intimate (or emotional) loneliness: Longing for a close confidante or intimate partner, sharing a mutual bond and trust.Murthy defines loneliness as “ the subjective feeling that you’re lacking the social connections you need.”Īccording to researchers, there are three types of loneliness: Book Summary: The Key Ideas in Detail Key Idea #1: The types and dangers of loneliness Meanwhile, parents, educators and policymakers must lead the way in fostering social connections. #5: Addressing loneliness, inside-out and outside-in: To address loneliness, we first need to get reacquainted with our authentic selves. #4: The three circles of connection: A solution for policymakers and individuals requires three levels of social connection to be addressed, which mirror the types of loneliness.

#3: The trend towards individualism: Changes in cultures and technologies are increasingly leading us to individualism over collectivism.

Over the long run, this response can have a destructive health impact. #2: The evolution of loneliness: Our biological response to loneliness is a consequence of our evolutionary need for social connection. A range of research suggests low social connections can lead to adverse physical health impacts. #1: The types and dangers of loneliness: Loneliness can be divided into the three layers of intimate, relational and collective loneliness. And as Murthy argues throughout, we are already equipped with the antidote: our universal condition for human connection. The book seeks to explain why building a more connected world holds the key to solving many medical and societal issues. As the Nineteenth Surgeon General of the United States, Vivek Murthy found that one of the most common underlying themes of ill health was loneliness, without exemption by wealth, education or accomplishments.
